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Things to do this Weekend: ‘Tinga Tinga Tales’ Tells a Story of Self-Confidence

October 19, 2018

For me, eye-catching costumes, vibrant characters, imaginative set design, soul-stirring songs and dynamic storytelling are all elements that make a great musical.

New Victory Theater’s new show, “Tinga Tinga Tales: The Musical,” features all those things and more.

Set in Africa’s majestic fields with towering mango trees and buzzing honey bees, the enchanting show reinforces acceptance and community. Aimed at children ages 4-7, the musical tells the universal story of self-doubt, feelings of inferiority and overall lack of confidence through the eyes of a downtrodden chameleon.

Tinga Rain Productions

Throughout the intermission-free, 70-minute show, the chameleon encounters situations where he strives to be noticed, but doesn’t feel he’s worthy of attention. While he’s on a personal journey of self-discovery, the ensemble cast which includes a tortoise, hippo, elephant, giraffe and lion gets the audience grooving with sing-alongs and dance-offs set to African beats and mesmerizing rhythms.

Ava with “Tinga Tinga Tales: The Musical” cast members on October 14, 2018.

Kids and adults alike are entertained from start to finish. Plus, everyone walk away with a poignant message of self-love, confidence and an overarching notion that everyone matters and serves a purpose in this big, wild world.

For show times and tickets, please visit New Victory Theater.

Have you ever suffered from self-doubt? If so, how did you overcome that mindset?

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Disney Celebrates International Day of the Girl with Empowering Initiative

October 10, 2018

When I was a little girl, I dreamed of working at a national glossy magazine like Ebony or Essence. I was mesmerized by the beauty displayed within their pages. Prominent black people being celebrated for their accomplishments in sports, politics, entertainment and other sectors was something that I couldn’t get enough of. Oh, and don’t get me started on the jaw-dropping fashions and gorgeous beauty spreads. Magazines spoke to me in a way that nothing else did. Plus, my passion for writing cemented my quest for turning my dream into a reality (which eventually came to fruition, but at another magazine).

Today my dream is for my 8-year-old daughter to have those same big dreams and to see them come true!

That’s why I’m so happy that Disney’s “Dream Big, Princess” campaign is encouraging young girls worldwide to follow their dreams too. To celebrate the United Nations’ International Day of the Girl, which is tomorrow, October 11 – Disney is inviting all guests to Disney Parks around the globe to Disney bound in outfits inspired by their favorite female characters who encourage them to be confident, fearless, creative and more! From Moana to Tiana, Disney has many inspiring role models for guests to choose from.

Not sure what Disney bounding is? It’s simply dressing up in regular clothes that are inspired by a character’s ensemble. Matching the character’s color scheme is key! For example, if you’re Disney bounding as Ariel from “The Little Mermaid,” a purple, off-the-shoulder top and a glittering, turquoise skirt (sequins preferred) would be the perfect “under the sea” look.

Now that you know how to Disney bound, there’s more! Stay tuned for the #DreamBigPrincess video series later this month, celebrating the inspiring stories and words of advice from female trailblazers across industries and around the world, captured by 21 talented young women from 13 countries.

So, here’s how you can join the empowering movement:

Disney bound as your favorite female Disney character tomorrow, October 11^th at Disney Parks worldwide
From October 10 through November 20^th use the hashtag #DreamBigPrincess on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter and each “like” will unlock a US $1 donation from Disney Worldwide Services to Girl Up, the United Nations Foundation’s program supporting girls’ leadership and empowerment (minimum donation: $500,000/maximum donation: $1 million).

Before you dress up in your best Disney bounding ensembles, be sure to read Disney’s guidelines and attire rules, etc.:

Walt Disney World Resort Attire Guidelines

Disneyland Resort Attire Guidelines

Disneyland Paris Resort Attire Guidelines

Shanghai Disney Resort Attire Guidelines

Who is your or your child’s favorite Disney Princess? Why?

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L.A’s Cheat Day Land Museum Will Satisfy All Your Junk Food and Art Cravings

October 8, 2018

When it comes to food, we all have our vices. Maybe it’s chocolate or perhaps ice cream? No matter your preference, many people have their favorite junk food indulgences. That’s why visiting the Cheat Day Land Museum in Los Angeles was such a guilt-free treat.

Comprised of 17 completely immersive, interactive exhibitions featuring common sweet and savory “cheat day” delights, the pop-up museum is a new, temporary installation for the Instagram set and art lovers alike. The photo-friendly destination celebrates junk food and turns some of the most popular cravings into masterful works of art.

Located in the heart of the art district, the fun and colorful displays are a welcome addition to the L.A art scene. Patrons can snap photos with giant soda pops and swing from donuts without worrying about pesky calories.

Created by a five-sibling team, the project is the brainchild of the eldest, Rubi Rymenmy. Ironically, Rymenmy and her family own a fitness studio on the southwest side of the city. Since they’re in the business of being fit and healthy, Cheat Day Land is an escape and manifestation of their own cravings. They know and acknowledge that everyone deserves desserts occasionally.

The family-run museum also showcases artwork from Rymenmy’s brothers. Their vibrant paintings give the space a pop-culture feel that will satisfy the cravings of foodies and art aficionados.

From hamburgers to pancakes, the pop-up is a must for those looking to “cheat” on their diets and indulge in a ton of fun!

Cheat Day Land opened October 1st and runs through October 31st. Tickets cost $38 and can be purchased here.

Check out some of my pics from a special sneak peek:

What’s your favorite “cheat day” food?

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Ashley Stewart Crowns ‘I Am Ashley’ Winner

September 21, 2018

Last week, Ashley Stewart crowned its “I Am Ashley” ambassador search winner.

For the second year, the leading fashion brand conducted a nationwide #FindingAshleyStewart tour in search of an ambassador who embodies the brand’s ethos: kindness, resilience, confidence, community and of course, fashion.

BROOKLYN, NY – SEPTEMBER 15: A view of venue exterior during Finding Ashley Stewart 2018 at Kings Theatre on September 15, 2018 in Brooklyn, New York. (Photo by Brad Barket/Getty Images for Ashley Stewart)

After a seven-month search, which included tour stops in Atlanta, Chicago, Philadelphia, Harlem, Dallas, and several other cities, Tiffany Gosa-Flamer of Chester, Pennsylvania, took home the title.

BROOKLYN, NY – SEPTEMBER 15: (L-R) Kendra Powe, Sharonda Gradberry, Chelsi Moree, Tiffany Gosa-Flamer, James C. Rhee, Mary E. Allen, Raquel Wells, LaShawn Kinley and Diane Diaga attend Finding Ashley Stewart 2018 at Kings Theatre on September 15, 2018 in Brooklyn, New York. (Photo by Bennett Raglin/Getty Images for Ashley Stewart)

BROOKLYN, NY – SEPTEMBER 15: Tiffany Gosa-Flamer attends Finding Ashley Stewart 2018 at Kings Theatre on September 15, 2018 in Brooklyn, New York. (Photo by Bennett Raglin/Getty Images for Ashley Stewart)

Held at Kings Theater in Brooklyn, the finale showcased eight finalists vying for the chance to win the $10, 000 prize package, a new Ashley Stewart wardrobe, makeover, tour-sponsored gift prizes, a photo shoot, and participation in features across Ashley Stewart media platforms for one year.

BROOKLYN, NY – SEPTEMBER 15: Loni Love (L) and La La Anthony speak onstage during Finding Ashley Stewart 2018 at Kings Theatre on September 15, 2018 in Brooklyn, New York. (Photo by Bennett Raglin/Getty Images for Ashley Stewart)

The evening was filled with inspiring stories from the contestants, good music and fierce fashions. Hosted by Loni Love, comedian and co-host of the daytime talk show “The Real,” the two-hour show was an empowering celebration of women.

BROOKLYN, NY – SEPTEMBER 15: Soledad O’Brien appears onstage during Finding Ashley Stewart 2018 at Kings Theatre on September 15, 2018 in Brooklyn, New York. (Photo by Brad Barket/Getty Images for Ashley Stewart)

Media maven Soledad O’Brien and radio personality and actress Lala Anthony were also in attendance on behalf of the brand to present close to $150,000 in charities and individual scholarships to several students across the country.

Plus, the event featured amazing ’90s throwback performances by MC Lyte, SWV and Naughty by Nature.

BROOKLYN, NY – SEPTEMBER 15: SWV perform onstage during Finding Ashley Stewart 2018 at Kings Theatre on September 15, 2018 in Brooklyn, New York. (Photo by Bennett Raglin/Getty Images for Ashley Stewart)

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Me with my friend Shelley at the Finding Ashley Stewart Finale in Brooklyn, NY.

“Becoming Ashley Stewart 2018 means that I have a great opportunity to empower girls, teens and women across the nation, and share my story of how I turned my life around,” said Gosa-Flamer. “It’s a true privilege and honor, and I’m proud to say that ‘I Am Ashley’.”

Do you shop at Ashley Stewart?

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Curls, Kinks and Waves Take Centerstage at ‘Texture on the Runway’ Show

September 13, 2018

Last week, all the kinky, wavy and curly-haired girls descended on Gotham Hall for Naturally Curly Presents: Texture on the Runway New York Fashion Week fête. #BlackGirlMagic was in effect and on full display.

The hot-ticket runway show featured popular natural haircare brands Camille Rose Naturals, Cantu, Carol’s Daughter, Crème of Nature, Mielle Organics, SheaMoisture and The Mane Choice who showcased intricate, eye-catching textured styles achieved using their products and original techniques. While fashion wasn’t the main event, it was still front-and-center with fabulous designs that aesthetically matched the mane attraction.

Naturally Curly founder, Michelle Breyer and TV personality, Amara Le Negra, kicked off the Sally Beauty-powered show and let guests know that they were in for an exciting, memorable evening. The two-hour show was filled with uber creative, unique sets that spoke to each of the brands’ culture and ethos. With a New Orleans marriage-themed show by Cantu and a dance-inducing, mother-daughter inspired set by Carol’s Daughter, the stage was undeniably lit!

From thick, cornrow braids that effortlessly flowed into a blunt-cut bob to locs styled akin to unicorn horns to a towering, curly mane – innovative styles that complemented textured hair were centerstage at the fourth annual event. Watching gorgeously melanated models strutting their stuff on the runway in a room filled with scores of beautiful women of color was a special feeling that’s elusive in fashion.

My cousin, Nicole Rogers and I at the Naturally Curly Presents: Texture on the Runway show at Gotham Hall in New York City on Sept. 6, 2018.

Texture on the Runway is a can’t-miss show for many Black women because it celebrates our hair and all its various textures, which is often shunned in fashion—especially during high-profile events like New York Fashion Week. The show doesn’t only let the fashion world know that textured hair is incredibly versatile, but it’s also big, bold and beautiful!

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Naturally Curly founder, Michelle Breyer and reality TV personality Amara Le Negra at the Naturally Curly Presents: Texture on the Runway show at Gotham Hall in New York City on Sept. 6, 2018.

Camille Rose Naturals

Cantu

Carol’s Daughter

Creme of Nature

Mielle Organics

SheaMoisture

The Mane Choice

What’s your favorite brand of the bunch?

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Love Beauty and Planet Celebrates New Product Launches at Freehand New York

August 31, 2018

When it comes to unforgettable summer nights in New York City, nothing tops the ambiance of rooftop parties and events.

Recently, I got the chance to celebrate the end of the balmy season in fashion with one of my favorite brands, Love Beauty and Planet.

Held on the rooftop of the Freehand Hotel, the swanky event showcased the brand’s latest offerings ranging from all-natural deodorants to moisturizing, multi-purpose oils. Decked out in gorgeous florals and sumptuous greenery, the space was the perfect backdrop to complement Love Beauty and Planet’s eco-friendly products and sustainable message of doing our part to preserve earth by doing small acts of love (for the planet).

To highlight the beauty of caring for the planet, attendees were offered eye-catching manicures featuring artwork that supports the brand ethos like a globe, leaves or regular polishes without the detailed embellishments. I opted for the latter.

Throughout the event there were opportunities to drink, eat and mingle with other bloggers/editors soaking up the last few days of summer. Plus, we got the chance to smell, touch and test the products on display.

It was a magical night that brought back a lot of memories. The hotel where the event was held, was the first place I lived while interning at Honey magazine more than a decade ago. It used to be a dorm that housed students from the School of Visual Arts and other schools.

Attending the event as a blogger/editor felt like a glorious full-circle moment and I’m so grateful to have the lovely opportunity to reflect on my journalism journey with a brand that I love and respect.

How are you planning to spend the last few weeks of summer? What do you love the most about the summer?

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Michael Jackson’s Friends, Fans and Family Gather to Celebrate His Diamond Birthday in Las Vegas

August 30, 2018

Ever since I was 4-years-old, Michael Jackson has been my all-time favorite artist and entertainer. Like many people around the world, I was fascinated with him. For me, I never knew the young, wide-eyed handsome boy from Gary, Ind. who stole everyone’s hearts singing, “Who’s Lovin’ You.”

The Michael Jackson that I knew wore a perfectly coiffed Jheri curl, glittery jackets and penny loafers. He was magical, captivating and spellbinding. His killer dance moves, charisma and undeniable sex appeal were unmatched. Even as a child, I knew I was witnessing something that the world had never seen before.

Throughout the years, like millions, I was mesmerized by his music, impressed by his philanthropy and inspired by his undying passion to be the greatest entertainer on earth.

When he died on June 25, 2009, the world lost a part of American culture. Michael Jackson’s impact on music, artistry, dance, film and fashion is indisputable. He single-handedly transformed music videos and laid the foundation for others, especially black artists to follow.

That’s why I was so honored to cover and attend the King of Pop’s Diamond Birthday Celebration at Mandalay Bay Resort and Casino in Las Vegas yesterday. He would’ve been 60 years old. The legendary musician’s memory was commemorated with two special performances of “Michael Jackson ONE” Cirque du Soleil show at the Michael Jackson Theatre.

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Me with my cousin and photographer, Nicole Rogers.

If you’ve never seen “ONE,” which is in its fifth year of production, make your way to see it – trust me, you won’t regret it.

One part of the show brought me to tears because of the intense, raw emotion that Michael’s music exudes. It was jam-packed with some of his most popular songs coupled with awe-inspiring acrobatic feats.

From entertaining dance moves to thrilling costumes, it’s a feast for the eyes and ears.

Preceding the shows, there was a star-studded VIP red carpet with Gabrielle Union, Tito and Jackie Jackson, DJ Quik, Vanessa Hudgens and a host of others. The night was topped off with an off-the-charts (or is it off the wall?) after-party held at Daylight Nightclub featuring celebrity DJ Mark Ronson.

At the party, guests were treated to a special performance by the multi-talented entertainer, Usher.

While the Grammy-award-winning singer got the crowd pumped and party started with his upbeat hits like “OMG,” “Yeah” and “DJ Got Us Falling In Love,” he brought the house down when he paid tribute to the Gloved One with riveting renditions of “Don’t Stop Til You Get Enough,” “Rock With You,” and “Day and Night.”

If there was anyone who could possibly fill Michael’s entertaining shoes, it would be Usher and that was evident last night.

At the end of the fun-filled celebration, Michael’s kids Paris and Prince Jackson accepted the Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation Legacy Award for their father and launched an auction for the charity.

Although Michael is no longer here, his legacy and spirit lives on and it was felt last night in Las Vegas.

It was an incredible, unforgettable celebration that will stay with me forever.

Long, live the king!

What’s your favorite Michael Jackson song?

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Review: Beyoncé & Jay Z On the Run Again at Soldier Field

August 13, 2018

When it comes to music legends, only a few names come to mind. Michael, Prince, Whitney and of course Beyoncé.

Unfortunately, I never got the chance to see Michael Jackson, Prince or Whitney perform live before their untimely deaths, but I did get the opportunity to see the incomparable former Destiny Child frontwoman this past weekend.

To be clear, I saw Beyoncé in concert 15 years ago when she joined Tamia, Alicia Keys and Missy Elliott for Verizon’s Ladies First Tour in 2003. Sure, I saw Beyoncé, but not THE Beyoncé we know and love today. At that time, she was coming into her own as a solo artist beyond the confines of the quartet-turned-trio pop group that made her a household name. Oh, and Miss Knowles wasn’t even the tour’s headliner. Hard to imagine, right? Well, a lot has changed in 15 years.

Fast forward to today and she’s Mrs. Carter, a mother of three selling out stadiums with her husband, Jay Z. The power couple joined forces a second time for their “On the Run II,” tour—making stops around the country following their international leg of the show.

Although I live in Brooklyn, as a native Chicagoan, I wanted to see the show in the Windy City with my cousin and am glad I did. Seeing the powerhouse duo take the stage together at Soldier Field with the city’s gorgeous, gleaming skyline in the background was an unforgettable experience.

Chicago’s breathtaking architectural beauty was the perfect backdrop for what would be a phenomenal, music-filled night.

With scores of hit songs between them, it’s a difficult feat squeezing two Grammy-award winning catalogues into one show, but they did.

From Beyoncé’s chart-topping songs like, “Formation,” “I’m Sorry,” and “Crazy in Love,” to Jay Z’s “Song Cry” and “The Story of O.J.,” the couple performed songs that got the crowd going well, apeshit.

But nothing got the audience more excited than when they performed together. That is what people paid to see, right? The superstar singer and the hip-hop legend make music magic for loyal, enthusiastic fans. And magic was made. When they graced the stage performing renditions of their classic duets like, “Me and My Girlfriend,” “Drunk in Love,” and “Déjà vu” the crowd went wild.

Throughout the night, the pair took audiences on a musical journey — essentially, it was a love story set to song. Like every love story, there are ups and downs and it just so happens that their story has been in the spotlight for years, spawning subsequent musical masterpieces. Hello, “Lemonade” and “4:44.”

The nearly two-and half-hour show was filled with amazing costume changes, energizing music and love. The bond between Beyoncé and Jay Z is palpable. Like most relationships, they’ve been through a lot, but seem to still have “Love on Top.”

If you get an opportunity to see the living legends live, take it – you won’t be sorry. Check out Beyonce.com for the remaining tour dates.

Have you ever seen Beyoncé/Jay Z in concert? If so, what was your experience?

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GoGo squeeZ Wants to Send You on Dream Vacation to Walt Disney World

August 8, 2018

Ever dreamed of taking your family on a Walt Disney World vacation? If so, keep reading.

My friends at GoGo squeeZ are hosting an incredible sweepstakes that includes an all-expense paid 4-night/5-day trip for four to the most magical place on earth, Walt Disney World Resort.

With four theme parks (Magic Kingdom, Epcot, Hollywood Studios, Magic Kingdom) to explore, one lucky winner can make priceless, magical memories that will last a lifetime. From the new Toy Story Land attractions at Hollywood Studios to Pandora’s World of Avatar at Animal Kingdom, each park is uniquely distinct and filled with delicious eats, exhilarating rides and unforgettable experiences for all to enjoy.

Additionally, the winner will also receive a $500 Disney gift card for food, souvenirs and other fun things to make the trip even more magical. If that wasn’t enough, the prize pack also includes a one case of GoGo squeeZ—72 pouches of nutritious goodness.

My family and I love GoGo squeeZ and Disney so it’s a no-brainer that we’re going to enter this sweepstakes too!

So, now until October 31^st, you’ll have the chance to meet Mickey, Minnie and the rest of the Disney gang in Orlando. Enter today—your dream vacation awaits. Good luck!

For full sweepstakes details, visit gogosqueez.com/squeezthemomentsweeps

Have you ever taken a Disney World vacation? If so, what’s your favorite park?

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‘Insecure’ x Tidal Event Recap Plus 5 Reasons Why It’s the Best Show On TV

August 7, 2018

It’s time to clear your Sunday evenings for the next couple of months.

Our favorite besties Issa (Issa Rae) and Molly (Yvonne Orji) are back for the third season of HBO’s hit show, “Insecure,” premiering Sunday, April 12.

Set through the lens of Issa, a young black woman living in Los Angeles — the groundbreaking series brilliantly showcases the ups and downs of life for young black women. The hilarious, yet thought-provoking semi-topical show will undoubtedly keep us glued to our screens as we watch the relatable and likable characters navigate their way through the insecurities that come with dating, friendship, work and all-around “adulting.”

Last week, I had the pleasure of attending a private screening and pop-up event hosted by HBO and Tidal to celebrate the upcoming season premiere. From carnival-style games to a karaoke station staged like Issa’s bathroom mirror rap sessions, the cheeky “adulting ain’t easy” theme was personified at every turn.

After settling in with tasty bites and refreshing drinks, attendees got a sneak peek of the season’s first episode. If the premiere is any indication of what’s to come, fans are in for tons of laughs and awkward, cringe-worthy moments.

Here’s why I’ll be watching “Insecure” this season (and seasons to come):

It showcases the intricacies of true black female friendships, which is rarely seen on television.
Between Issa’s beautiful braids and regal corn rows to Kelli’s (played by Natasha Rothwell) gorgeous wash-and-go styles, the natural hair inspiration showcased is endless.
Hardly anyone’s path to love is without detours, a few wrecks and countless bumps in the road. The series shows just how messy the journey can be as the varied characters make their way through the good, the bad and the ugly of dating.
The show manages to highlight the racial microaggressions young black professionals face in the workplace in a comical, light-hearted way, which in reality is far from funny. I believe showing these conflicts can open people’s eyes who may be guilty of inflicting similar microaggressions at their jobs, which will hopefully inspire them to change their ways.
It exemplifies black excellence. Sure, some of the characters have their flaws, but don’t we all? The fact that the series was created by black people, written by black people, features black people, represents black people and showcases music made by black people, I think that makes it the epitome black excellence!

Below, check out pics from the event:

Are you an “Insecure” fan? If so, what do you love the most about the series? Also, if you’re not already streaming the soundtrack on Tidal, what are you waiting for?

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