BGG Chats with R&B Singer Ashanti

I recently had a chance to chat with Grammy award-winning R&B singer, Ashanti. Known for her catchy lyrics and heartfelt tunes, this Long Island native is back and hotter than ever. Her latest single, “The Way that I Love You,” is climbing the charts and is in heavy rotation across the country. She’s declaring that she’s no longer “Foolish.”

Check out our Q&A:

BGG: Tell me a bit about your new album, “The Declaration.” What makes it different from your other CDs?

Ashanti: Well this is my first album in 4 years. I’ve done a lot of growing up and I did basically everything on my own this time around with the project. I executively produced the entire thing…behind-the-scenes and the creative process. So I’m really excited about it. It’s very versatile and you can just tell sonically, musically, vocally and lyrically I’m at a different place than with my last album; so I’m very excited!

BGG: What producers did you work with this time around?

Ashanti: I worked with a whole bunch of producers. Every single one didn’t make the album, but the fact that I was able to work with them was really an amazing experience for me. From Babyface to L.T. Hutton (who actually worked on her latest single), Pharrell, Jermaine Dupri, Brian Cox, Polow, Rodney Jerkins, Robin Thicke, 7 Aurelius – a lot of very talented producers.

BGG: What’s your relationship with the Inc.?

Ashanti: The Inc. is signed to Universal so it’s the Inc/Universal. And that’s what it is (laughing)!

BGG: What’s your next single?

Ashanti: I’m not sure yet, which is a really good position to be in because we have 2 or 3 really great candidates. We’ll see!

BGG: I know that you write all of your songs. What’s the inspiration behind your lyrics?

Ashanti: Just real life. Usually it’s something that I’m going through or something that I’ve gone through or something that people who are in my circle are going through or have gone through. No matter what, it’s always something that is real. I’ve always been really genuine and sincere with my lyrics and I think that’s why a lot of people can relate to my records. I’ve just always had a passion for writing so I feel like when you hear a record and you can relate to it, it’s like “Ah,” it’s such a wonderful feeling. It’s like, “I’m not the only one going through this!”

BGG: Are you going on tour this summer for the album?

Ashanti: Definitely, I’m not sure when, but I’m definitely excited about touring.

BGG: Tell me your secret to staying in great shape!

Ashanti: It’s about being healthy. I do have a trainer. I do try to hit the gym as much as I can. I don’t eat a lot of fried foods and I don’t eat red meat or pork. That’s just my own personal preference. It’s just about being in shape and again trying to hit the gym. If you really ‘wild-out’ with pizza, chicken, cake and all kinds of stuff then you really should hit the gym. You have to make up for it.

BGG: I know you once wrote a book of poetry (Foolish/Unfoolish), do you think you’d ever do something like that again?

Ashanti: Yes! I had a really good time writing that. I’ve been thinking about doing another book. I’m not sure if it will be poetry, maybe or maybe not. I have had an idea of doing a book called, “Ashanti’s Style.” It would basically be about beauty secrets and fashion tips. A lot of behind the scenes stuff that most people don’t talk about too much like, the miracles of double-stick tape! (laughing) Look for that maybe later this year or early next year.

BGG: If you could do a duet with someone that you admire, who would it be?

Ashanti: Wow, I don’t know. I’ve honestly taken it one step at a time and working with a variety of producers is already a huge step for me. I’ve always worked with in-house producers. But as far as collaborating, I feel like anytime you get two artists in the studio, you could potentially come up with something incredible just with a lot of talent and creative juice flowing, but I don’t have anybody particularly in mind right now. I’m still stuck on the high of, “wow, I’ve worked with so many different producers this year alone!”

BGG: What are a few of your must-have beauty products?

Ashanti: Lip-gloss!! MAC! Recently, I’ve actually been into the MAC color glosses for the last couple of months.

BGG: I’ve seen a few photos of you in shades similar to what you’re wearing now.

Ashanti: Yeah, I like it. Oh and lotion. I have 3 things of lotion (travel size) in this bag right now. You never know when you’re going to have to lotion up those toes! (laughing)

BGG: Your latest video, “The Way That I Love You,” is like a mini-movie; are you working on any new movie projects?

Ashanti: I definitely want to venture more into the movie side of things. I had a really good time filming all of the films that I’ve been in. It’s a different experience than recording. It’s good so I definitely want to get back into it. I’ve been out in L.A a couple of times this month working on a couple of things so I have my fingers crossed!

Check out her video here:

BGG: Is there in any role that you’re more drawn to than others?

Ashanti: For me I would love to get everything in one big ball – drama, comedy, action and romance! That would be ideal for me.

BGG: What would you like your fans to know about you that they might not already know?

Ashanti: Well, I don’t know because they usually know everything! (laughing).
Wow, I guess I would tell them about…(long pause) My favorite bike was my Strawberry Shortcake bike that I received when I was 5-years-old. It was pink and I got a pink jacket to go with it. The bike had a basket with strawberries on it!! I loved it! It was my best toy for like so many years! (Her mom adds, more like “FOREVER!”) And I would always wear my pink jacket with my pink and red bike!

BGG: Is there anything else that you want readers to know?

Ashanti: ALBUM IN STORES JUNE 3rd!!! Oh yeah, I also have this website site called, Gotchagram.com, which is a viral tool that you can use if you find out if that your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you, you send them this email blast that you can fill out and customize. It shows a snippet of my video (The Way That I Love You) and basically it says my boyfriend is cheating on me and the way I’m going to get him back is that I’m going to put a boot up in his ass! You can use a boot, Timbaland, high-heel, a machete or whatever it is and you kind of put him on blast so you can be like, “I caught you!” And he could be guilty of not being emotionally available, he cheated, or he’s trying to talk to your cousin and you just put him on blast! You have to see it! Just log-on to www.thewaythatiloveyou.com.

Gold Rush

I haven’t always been a fan of gold jewelry, but for the past couple of summers, nothing makes me sparkle like gold! A delicate gold necklace can complement a summery sun-dress or add a feminine touch to a simple white tank. I especially like the popular, lady-like layered look because it exemplifies effortless chic.

For us BGs, this bold and precious metal just looks good against our naturally bronzed skin.

Do you prefer to wear gold jewelry more during the warmer months or am I the only crazy one!?

Check out some of these:


Gorjana Double-Link Necklace available at www.shopbop.com for $55


Tiffany Notes Round Pendant on 18 inch Chain available at www.tiffanys.com for $1750


Robyn Rhodes Rita Necklace available at www.couturecandy.com for $120


Mashka Gold Quadruple Hoop Pendant Necklace available at www.bluefly.com for $73


Juicy Couture Garden Party Necklace available at www.saksfifthave.com for $98


Sand Dollar Necklace available at www.jcrew.com for $55


Lisa K Greece Necklace in Gold available at www.couturecandy.com for $445


Adina Reyter Tiny Circle Necklace available at www.shopbop.com for $242

Put Your Best Face Forward!

During my birthday trip to Houston I was treated to my very first facial! It’s true, I was a virgin to the relaxing process that purifies pores, sloughs away dead skin and leaves your face feeling smooth and rejuvenated. Yes, I know I’m a late bloomer.

Of course I had done mini-facials in the comfort of my own bathroom before, but never had I had an actual professional esthetician perform one on me. I absolutely love to be pampered so it was the perfect gift.

Since getting professional facials can be a bit pricey, here are a few over-the-counter products that just might give you that same spa experience!

How often do you go to a spa for a facial?


Pretika Sonic Dermabrasion Facial Care System available at www.target.com for $59.99


Nivea Visage Q10 Gentle Spa Microdermabrasion Kit available www.drugstore.com for $19.49


Pangea Organics Facial Mask Japanes Match Tea with Acai and Goji Berry available at www.nordstrom.com for $34


Vitamin Infusion Home Facial Kit available at www.ulta.com for $70


Bliss Pore Perfecting Facial Polish available www.blissworld.com for $30


Neutrogena Advanced Solutions Facial Peel available at www.ulta.com for $21.49


Bliss Youth Group Skin Care Kit available at www.blissworld.com for $68


Cosmedicine Spa-It-Yourself at Home Facial Kit available at www.sephora.com for $95


Seaweed Pore-Cleansing Facial Exfoliator available at www.thebodyshop.com for $12.50


Sue Devitt Micro-Quatic Anti-Ageing Facial Treatment available at www.spacenk.com for $125

“Bra”nanza!

We all have them and they all need our support. You’ve got it, I’m talking about our beloved boobies! That’s why finding the perfect bra is essential to making them look their absolute best!

Because I am a member of the, “Itty Bitty…” – you know the rest, I opt to wear bras with a tad of padding. In fact, I used to be a huge fan of the gel-padded bras until I had a messy mishap that I’ll spare the details about. Since then, I now stick to regularly padded, but liquid-free bras!

From sexy lace underwires to super supportive sports bras, there’s one that’s right for you. Plus there are tons of bras out there that can work with just about any outfit. The key is to make sure that you’re getting the right size. Head to your local lingerie store or a nearby Victoria’s Secret to get professionally fitted – trust me, it will make a huge difference.

In the meantime check out some of these!


Simply Vera Vera Wang Wire Free Bra available at www.kohls.com for $19.99


Hanky Panky Stripe Bralette available at www.nordstrom.com for $45


Chantell Intimates Caprice Underwire Demi Bra available at www.nordstrom.com for $115


Tobi Cosabell Pearl Bra available at www.tobi.com for $88


Adidas Clima “Cool” Sports Bra available at www.nordstrom.com for $30


Gilligan & O’Malley Favorite Fit Bra available at www.target.com for $9.99


Padded Bandeau Bra available at www.gap.com for $29.50


Victoria’s Secret Low-Cut Push-Up Bra available at www.victoriassecret.com for $48-51


Victoria’s Secret 100-Ways Strapless Convertible Bra available at www.victoriassecret.com for $50-56

All-Time Favorite Hair & Beauty Products!

We BGs love trying that hot new lip gloss or the latest trendy miracle cream, but some products are just staples in perfecting our beauty. Whether your grandmother told you that Vaseline is the answer to ashy elbows or your college roomate told you to use Johnson’s Baby Powder under your eyes to dust off excess eye shadow, we all have our favorite, tried and true products that we can’t live without.

Share some of your must-have items! Here are a few of mine:


Johnson & Johnson Baby Oil Gel available at www.duanereade.com for $3.99 – I use this on my legs after a nice hot shower and they always leave them feeling silky smooth!


Optimum Oil Therapy Dry Hair Healer available at www.walgreens.com for $4.49 – I have extremely dull hair so this cream breathes a bit of life into it, plus it smells delightful!


L’Oreal Colour Juice Lip Gloss available at www.drugstore.com for $7.99 – I’ve used just about every color they carry and I still can’t get enough!


Revlon Colorstay Eyeliner available at www.walgreens.com for $7.49 – Before I found this product I used to get raccoon eyes by the end of the day, but because it’s waterproof it never smudges!


Oil of Olay Complete All Day Moisture Lotion available at www.walgreens.com for $6.99 – My mother has always used Oil of Olay so I thought that I should too since she has fabulous skin even though she’s in her 60s!


Maybelline Great Lash Mascara – Of course this made my list. I’ve written about it several times. It really is the best mascara ever!


Sulfar 8 Original Anti-Dandruff Medicated Formula available at drugstores nationwide. – My hair is extremely dry and dandruff prone as a result of my relaxer. Although it stinks, it tingles and gets the job done every time.


Dermablend Smooth Indulgence Concealer available at www.macys.com for $18 – I’ve been using this concealer for several years. It blends into my skin perfectly without making me look like I’m obviously wearing makeup.

Stylish, Strappy Flat Sandals!

Thanks so much for all of my birthday wishes! I really appreciated each of them!!

I’m back from my birthday trip to Houston. I had such a wonderful time hanging with my cousins. I ate, ate, and then ate some more! I also went to this super fabulous spa called the Urban Retreat (compliments of my favorite cousin) where I got a facial and massage, which was downright heavenly!

Since it’s super humid in Houston, my hair didn’t fare too well, but it was ok since I was just relaxing with family. Although I did wish that I had brought a comfortable pair of stylish flat sandals to wear while dining and shopping. Even though it’s not as hot in New York as it is in Texas right now, warm weather is right around the corner so what better time than now to pick up a cute pair of sandals!

After dealing with a long, hectic flight delay on my way back to NY, I could use another massage, but I digress.

In the meantime check out some of these strappy flats. Would you wear the popular new Gladiator style?


Sam Edelman Black & White Boa Snake Gilda Sandal available at www.kitson.com for $78


Pour La Victoire Nanette Sandal www.urbanoutfitters.com for $168


Seeri Floral Sandal available www.stevemadden.com for $59.95


Vince Amuto Barb Thong Slingback available at www.macys.com for $98


Roope Metallic Sandal availalbe at www.stevemadden.com for $59.95


Miss Sixty Strappy Sandals available at www.asos.com for $76.34


Froid Leather Sandal available at www.freepeople.com for $268


Haiku Sandal available at www.guess.com for $90


Stella Crystal Sandal available at www.freepeople.com for $118


Karla Brown Sandal available at www.couturecandy.com for $84. I had to include these because the name is just so adorable! 🙂

Travel Time!

By the time you read this post I’ll be in Houston celebrating my birthday with my favorite cousins. I’m going to relax with spa treatments, food and fun. I’m not even taking my baby with me, ahem, not my husband – my Macbook! I don’t know how I’ll survive without it, but I’ll manage.

Anyway, since I’m going out of town, that means I’ll have to go to my least favorite place on earth – the dreadful airport. Even with high fuel prices and the impending recession, people still have to get places. So if you’re going to travel, you might as well go in style with these super chic suitcases and luggage sets!

Hopefully, these stylish travel bags won’t get lost in the shuffle!

Do you usually have your bags checked or do you typically carry on?


Diane Von Furstenberg “Working Girl” Luggage Set available at www.macys.com for $299 (was $760)


Classic Louis Vuitton Keepall 60 available at www.eluxury.com for $1000


Longchamp Pliage Trolley available at www.saks.com for $255


Life Pelle Collection Vegetable Leather (I’ve never heard of that either!) Carry-On Rolling Duffle Bag available www.neimanmarcus.com for $1,045.


Tag Dots Luggage Set available at www.macys.com for $99.99


Lacoste Duffle Bag available at www.neimanmarcus.com for $114


Delsey Pink Luggage available at ww.neimanmarcus.com from $30-$340


Nike Connection Large Wheel Bag available at www.nike.com for $180

Get Smooth Legs for Spring!

Even though it’s only in the 60s here in New York City this week, it’s almost time for us BGs to go barelegged again. Showing off our gorgeous gams is what spring ensembles are all about.

From short shorts to mini-skirts, this time of year calls for smooth and shiny legs. But in order to get our legs lovely, we must remove all remnants of hair.

Today, there are a myriad of options available. From gels and creams that can easily slough away the finest of hairs to laser removal, there is a process that’s right for you.

How do you get your legs spring/summer spotlight worthy? Do you wax, shave, laser or go au naturel? Please share!


No! No! A revolutionary new concept in hair removal, suitable for all hair types and skin colors. It is NOT a razor. Available at www.sephora.com for $250


Veet in Shower Hair available at www.drugstore.com for $7.99


Moom Organic Hair Removal Kit available www.drugstore.com for $16.40


Nair Lotion Hair Removal with Baby Oil available at www.drugstore.com for $5.26


Emoji Optima Hair Removal System available at www.drugstore.com $69.99


Bliss Poetic Cosmetic Waxing Kit available www.sephora.com for $45


Schick Quattro High Performance Disposable Razors for Women with 4 Blades available at www.walgreens.com for $7.99

Great Gifts for Mom!

With Mother’s Day less than 2 weeks away, it’s time to think of special gifts that will make your mom smile. Whether she’s a makeup maven, self-help enthusiast, candy lover or somewhere in between, BGG has rounded up some of the best gifts to honor the woman who made us who we are today.

What was the most memorable gift you’ve ever given your mother or received on Mother’s Day?

Take a look at these:

Flowers always brighten a woman’s day, especially pretty pink ones! Posh Pinks Bouquet available at www.teleflora.com for $52.95


Diamonds are a girls’ best friend. Sterling Silver Diamond Bangle Bracelet available at www.macys.com for $242.10


Ever want to get your mother to tell her life story? Here’s your chance! This Story of Lifetime book has over a 500 questions that you can ask your mom. From describing her first proposal to her first job, this book is perfect to pass down to generations. Available at www.redenvelope.com for $48


You played in her makeup when you were a kid, why not repay her with luxurious Lancome lipstick? Mother’s Day Lips Seductive Cools available at www.lancome.com for $49.50


You’d be hard-pressed to find a woman who doesn’t love chocolate – I’m sure your mom is no exception! Queen for a Day Chocolates available at www.redenvelope.com for $38.00.


For the mom who loves snapping shots of her kids and grandkids at family gatherings, this Canon PowerShot Digital Camera is perfect for the parent-paparazzi. Availble at www.compusa.com for $169.97.


Since she rarely makes time for herself, treat her to a relaxing spa treatment. SpaFinders.com have gift certificates that are valid at over 4000 spas nationwide from $50-$1000.


If you can’t get her to go to a spa, bring the massage to her with the OSIM iSqueez Foot and Calf Massager available at www.brookstone.com for $399


To help maintain your mom’s gorgeous glow, try Carol’s Daughter’s Almond Celebration Set available at www.carolsdaughter.com for $58.00


For the mom who adores all things Oprah, this hardcover “best of” book is bound to please. O’s Guide to Life: The Best of O, the Oprah Magazine available at www.amazon.com for $19.77

There’s no photo for this, but I had to include taking your mother out to a spectacular brunch (a gospel brunch would be even better). She’ll appreciate that you filled her belly and spirit!

Cool & Comfy Cardigans!

Last week I had the opportunity to attend an event hosted by Martin & Osa at a boutique hotel in Soho. I must admit, I had never heard of this brand prior to receiving the invitation, but after attending the party, I am now in LOVE with their line of cashmere cardigans! They’re lightweight, super soft and affordable.

Lightweight cardigans are perfect for pairing with spring/summer outfits. If it’s not quite chilly enough for a jacket, but you still want to have something to keep you a bit warm, wearing a cardigan is the ideal choice. Having a light sweater really comes in handy when you’re dining out, in the office or at the movies where the AC is on full-blast.

Plus, they can fit into a bag or tote for easy-access!

Check out some of these:

Martin & Osa Cashmere Silk Cardigan available at www.martinandosa.com for $128


Featherweight V-Neck Cardigan available at www.jcrew.com for $59.50


Cashmere Martin Cardigan available at www.jcrew.com for $188


Cotton Swing Cardigan available at www.ninewest.com for $89


Cotton-Blend V-Neck Cardigan available at www.bananarepublic.com for $34.99


La Jolla Print Cardigan available at www.jcrew.com for $88


Free People Ballon Sleeve Cardigan available at www.shopbop.com for $108


Belted Rolled-Up Cardigan available at www.gap.com for $49.50


Mossimo Cropped Cardigan available at www.target.com for $17.99