Brown Girl of the Week: Trisha R. Thomas

Earlier this year I asked if you guys would like to read about fabulous women doing great things in a new column called, Brown Girl of the Week, and you all responded with a resounding “YES.” For the first installment, I had the pleasure of catching up with Trisha R. Thomas, a celebrated writer who has authored over 10 books and is most known for her popular best-selling “Nappily” series.


In bookstores May 25th!

Check out our Q&A:
BGG: What can your fans of the “Nappily” expect from your new book, “Un-Nappily In Love”?
Trisha: Venus and Jake are together. That’s the first and most important thing. I get that question more than any, will Jake and Venus stay together? Now more than ever it’s crunch time. Jake is a celebrity from his rap background and in “Un-Nappily In Love” he’s living his dream as an actor. He stars in a movie with the new ‘It Girl’ Sirena Lassiter, who also happens to share a past with Jake that will come to light. I’m hoping fans of the series will love this ending more than all the others.

BGG: Congratulations on your first novel, “Nappily Ever After,” being adapted into a Universal Pictures movie starring Halle Berry! Did you ever think that any of your books would be brought to the big screen?
Trisha: I never envisioned my book being made into a film. All I wanted was someone to read it and get what I was saying, someone to co-sign and say, ‘yeah, that’s the truth ain’t it.’ But to hear a resounding, “hell yeah, that’s the truth!”made me smile, and cry at the same time.

BGG: At what age did you know that you wanted to become a professional writer?
Trisha: Probably at age six or seven. When I could read, I knew I wanted to write.

BGG: What do you do to get back on track when you have a case of Writer’s Block?
Trisha: I love this question. I’m not afraid of Writer’s Block. I believe in its power to make you a better writer. My philosophy is this: When you hit the brick wall and you can’t go around it, or over it, you need to back it up so you can see it from a distance. The brick wall means, you’ve gone as far as you can go and it’s not leading in the right direction. Put the story in reverse, make a U-turn and go to the place that made you smile, made you confident. Start over right at that point. Writing requires more re-writing than most people realize. There’s nothing wrong with starting from a fresh perspective.

BGG: Do you create your characters based on a mix of people who you know personally or are they based solely from your imagination?
Trisha: The characters from Nappily Ever After were very close to my mind and heart. I penned it with my past and a dash of imagination. Now I write completely from imagination with a dash of my past.

BGG: What’s your favorite book? Why?
Trisha: My all time favorite book for the longest was “A Ship Made Of Paper,” by Scott Spencer. I must’ve read it three or four times. I love the way he writes putting you right in the story. Contemporary writers have a bad reputation as being too aloof with feelings, descriptions, and overall presumption. And it’s true. Most contemporary writers expect you to know what the street, buildings, sky, everything should look like. A lot of fill-in-the-blank-here. But what if your book actually made it to 2050? Wouldn’t you want someone to know what it felt like in 2000, 2010, 2020? It’s important to capture the depth of your time period whether it’s now or written for a story in the 1800’s.

BGG: What advice would you give to an unpublished author who is struggling to get a book deal with one of the popular publishing houses?
Trisha: I’d say, focus on the writing first and the publishing later. Get a full story written which is about 75,000 words. Have it read by as many people who you can find, and get their feedback. If there’s a consistent theme or question unanswered, rewrite and answer those questions. When all that is done, you’re ready to start submitting to agents and publishers. You can also go to press independently. Being with a big publishing house doesn’t create a bestseller. I know many authors who had great success as self-published writers and then signed with large publishers, only to be disappointed with dismal results. i think a good story will sell regardless of who’s doing the publishing. I love a good story with characters who you can root for. Write and be that character who succeeds in the end. Nothing can stop you when you have that attitude of finishing the race no matter what.

Have you read any of Trisha’s books? If you’ve read her debut novel, “Nappily Ever After”, are you looking forward to seeing the movie adaptation? Be sure to check out BGG in the coming weeks for your chance to win a copy of her latest book, “Un-Nappily in Love.

Sole Food

If you want your feet to stand out this spring, get them noticed in vibrant, candy-colored shoes. Nothing says fresh and fun like a bright pair of pumps, sandals, heels or platforms. Ditch boring basics and pair these festive hues with flirty dresses and skirts of the season.

Do you wear bold shoe shades in the spring and summer?

Check out some of these:

Tory Burch Wrap-Up Heel available at www.toryburch.com for $325


Sigerson Morrison Strappy X-Band Sandal available at www.barneys.com for $350


Purple Snakeskin Urban Gladiator Heel available at www.torrid.com for $29.98


Nine West Cawley available at www.zappos.com for $88.95


Martinez Valero Haley available at www.zappos.com for $179


Christian Louboutin Neuron Suede Sandals available at www.theoutnet.com for $645


Charles by Charles David Notty Shoes available at www.zappos.com for $98

Bloggers Who Lunch: Sponsored by Aveeno

Unlike today in New York, Wednesday couldn’t have been a more picture-perfect day to lounge atop the Gramercy Park Hotel overlooking Manhattan during a lovely luncheon hosted by Aveeno. Since I’m still out on maternity leave, it was a great opportunity to go into the city and socialize with fellow writers and bloggers to converse about Aveeno’s newest product line, Ageless Vitality.

Not only did I have the chance to munch on tasty bites, sip chilled pineapple juice and chat with like-minded women, I actually had the opportunity to speak directly to one of the scientists behind the product. Learning about how the product was made and all of the testing that goes into making it top-notch quality was absolutely fascinating. I’ve always been a huge Aveeno fan, but now more than ever!

Are you a fan of Aveeno products?

Mani Mania

Since we are still living in a recession many women are continuing to cut back on beauty-related luxuries such as visits to the spa and nail salons and opting to take matters into their own hands – literally.

Equipped with a great manicure kit, it is possible to pamper yourself with a marvelous mani in the comfort of your home without spending much money. Granted, it may not look as polished as a professional job, but it will still look good and keep a few extra dollars in your pocket.

So skip a few trips to the salon and grab some pretty polish, a nice kit and do it yourself! You’ll save a bundle and still have beautiful hands.

Have you cut back on any beauty-related luxuries? Do you ever do your own manicures?

Check out these manicure kit!

The “Mani” Happy Return Set available at www.blissworld.com for $100


Say Yes to Carrots Manicure Set available at www.target.com for $19.99


Sephora Manicure Set available at www.sephora.com for $30


Juicy Loves Sephora Manicure Set available at www.sephora.com for $25


Bath & Body Works Manicure Set available at www.bathandbodyworks.com for $8 (originally $18)


Crabtree & Evelyn La Source Manicure Set for Hands available at www.beauty.com for $28


Tweezerman Petite Manicure Set available at www.amazon.com for $20

**Btw, the winner of the Snapfish $50 gift card is YaHighness! Congrats and please send me your email address. 🙂

Snap Happy!

Last week my beloved Macbook crashed and I ran the risk of losing all of my precious photos (like the one below) of my daughter Ava. Luckily, after shelling out a couple hundred dollars, I was able to get it fixed and retrieve all of my photos. In the past, I have not always been so lucky. That’s why it’s so important to print your digital photos.


Ava in her Easter bib. I’m printing out all of my pics just in case my computer decides to tank again.

For all of my fellow photo lovers, Snapfish is celebrating its 10th Anniversary this week and offering several outstanding discounts and promotions on prints, photo books, etc. Visit their site for more information on how you can sell and share your own creative card designs, photo book layouts and more (starting this summer)!

Also, Snapfish is offering a $50 gift card to one of my lucky readers. Simply leave a comment and a winner will be selected randomly and announced later this week!

Dreamgirl Diet

As most of you probably heard yesterday, Jennifer Hudson is the new spokeswoman for the popular Weight Watchers program. Our favorite dreamgirl has lost a significant amount of weight after the birth of her son. According to Hudson, this isn’t a diet, but a lifestyle change. I commend Ms. Hudson for being a curvy BG, but still trying to be more health conscious.

I’ve always heard such great things about Weight Watchers, but have never been on any diet; but I do love their frozen meals!

Have you ever tried Weight Watchers? Have you ever been on a diet? Do you think diets work? Please share.

**The winner of the Covergirl Queen Collection Bronzer is K-Bear. Please send me your mailing address. Congrats!

Bronzed Beauty

Spring is here and now’s the perfect time to start putting your warmer weather makeup routine into full swing. The spring is the best time to sweep on beautiful bronzers to add a sexy, shimmery glow. The golds, pinks and bronzes complement just about all skin tones and enhances cheekbones.

Do you use bronzers? If so, what’s your favorite brand? See below for a chance to win one of these!


Estee Lauder Bronze Goddess Exotic Bronzing Blush available at www.bloomingdales.com for $35


Bobbi Brown Nectar Shimmerbrick available at www.nordstrom.com for $38


Borghese Milano Multi-Bronzer available at www.beauty.com for $31


Elizabeth Arden Bronzing Story available at www.beauty.com for $32


Revlon Beyond Natural Blush Bronzer in Plumberry available at www.drugstore.com for $11.99


Covergirl Queen Collection Natural Hue Mineral Bronzer available at www.drugstore.com for $8.l8


YSL Complexion Palette Collector’s Edition available at www.bloomingdales.com for $65

**One lucky reader will win the Covergirl Queen Collection Natural Hue Mineral Bronzer. Just leave a comment and the winner will be selected randomly and announced later this week.

Knock-Out Neutral Handbags

This spring grab a handbag that will work with all of your colorful ensembles this season. Neutral shades are subtle, yet stylish. They can be worn with any shade of clothing making them the perfect alternative to your go-to black bag. The lighter shade is ideal for the warmer months and adds a classic flair regardless of the structure.

Would you wear a neutral handbag? What’s your favorite handbag style? Check out some of these!


Kristin Embossed Exotic Large Handbag available at www.coach.com for $798


Ananas Fabiana Tote available at www.endless.com for $198


Clio Shopper available at www.ninewest.com for $99


Juicy Couture Free Style Classic Clock Satchel available at www.juicycouture.com for $261


Juicy Couture Lady Luck Handbag available at www.juicycouture.com for $228


Olivia Harris Convertible Leather Shoulder Bag available at www.saks.com for $455


Sara Berman Studded Suede Clutch available at www.theoutnet.com for $110


Tory Burch Bombe Signature Clutch available at www.toryburch.com for $350


Slouchy Leatherette Shoulder Bag available at www.forever21.com for $30.80

Orchids in Bloom!

An Academy-award-winning actress, a Revlon spokeswoman, mother and most recently a perfumer – Halle Berry is back with a new fragrance – Pure Orchid. Wrapped in a pretty purple package, this perfume exudes femininity with its floral mix of orchids, jungle cactus flower, lemons and blackberry creme. This affordable, sensual scent is perfect for the spring season!


Halle Berry’s Pure Orchid 0.5 oz available at www.walmart.com for $16.

Have you tried Pure Orchid? Are you a fan of celebrity fragrances? One reader will win a bottle of Pure Orchid. Simply leave a comment and a winner will be announced later this week.

Oil Be Gone!

If you suffer from oily skin, Carol’s Daughter has concocted a trio of products that will tackle unwanted “glistening” called, Wash Away the Oil. This new 3-piece set includes a face wash, face toner and face lotion. I haven’t been using all three together yet, but I’ve been using the face lotion by itself and it is absolutely wonderful!


Wash Away the Oil Set available at www.carolsdaughter.com for $55

I have super oily skin in my T-zone and this lightweight lotion marvelously absorbs the oil leaving my face hydrated, but not greasy. I’m looking forward to using all three products together, but right now I’m pleasantly pleased with the lotion.

Have you tried this new trio? If you have oily skin, what products do you use to combat it?

**The winner of the Maybelline Lash Stiletto Voluptuous is RedBoneGirl97. Congrats, please email me your mailing address.