Good-bye Granny Girdles!

If you like wearing skin-tight dresses a la Mariah Carey or just want to create a nearly perfect silhouette, there’s one garment that you will definitely need – a body-shaper. Women have been wearing body-shaping undergarments for hundreds of years and the technology keeps getting better.

Whether you want to wear something that keeps your tummy tucked away or want to emphasize your tiny waist, body shapers help keep our jiggly parts in place, which ultimately creates a more flattering figure.

From Spanx to a basic thigh slimmer, there is an ultra-slimming body-shaping undergarment that will suit your needs. Trust me, they’re not just for grannies anymore!

I’ve never used a body-shaper, but I’ve been dying to try Spanx to slim down my thighs in certain dresses. Have you ever used a body-shaper?

Check out some of these:


Spanx Power Panties available at www.nordstrom.com for $30


Curvation Body Shaper available at www.curvation.com for $19.99


Victoria’s Secret Waist Shaper available at www.victoriassecret.com for $24


Donna Karan Waist Embrace Body Shaper available at www.nordstrom.com for $30


VIctoria’s Secret Seamless Bustier available at www.victoriassecret.com for $78


Spanx Hipnotic Low-Rise Footless Pantyhose available at www.nordstrom.com for $19.50


Hanes Seamless Thigh Slimmer available at www.target.com for $12.99


Angela Bustier available at www.gigiscloset.com for $27.50

Got Ink?

Trends come and go, but one fad seems to have stuck around…literally. I’m talking about tattoos. Ink is the quintessential trend that will probably be around forever.

From Rihanna’s itty bitty star cascade to the little old lady down the street with a sagging “hot stuff” on her chest, millions of Americans are “tatted up.” I don’t have any tattoos, but I know plenty of people who do, men and women. I must admit, I’ve always thought that tattoos on guys gave them an edge. What do you think?

Would you ever get a tattoo? If so, or if you already have one, have you ever regretted it?

Check out some of these celebrity tattoos:

Rihanna


Kelis


Mary J. Blige


Keyshia Cole


Mel B.

Cute Compacts!

What BG doesn’t carry a small mirror in her purse? Well, I guess that would be me. The other day I found myself fishing around my bottomless pit of a purse in search of a mirror!

Surprisingly, I realized that the only mirror I have is in my MAC powder compact (which I leave at home after I apply my makeup). So I think it’s time I pick up a cute compact to add to the rest of the beauty junk in my bag. Or I could just tote along my makeup MAC one!

Do you carry a compact mirror with you at all times?

Check out some of these!


Animal Print Compact available at www.bloomingdales.com for $32.99


Estee Lauder Golden Alligator Compact available at www.bloomingdales.com for $33


Estee Lauder Tuberose Gardenia Mirror Compact available at www.nordstrom.com for $75


Floral Print Fabric Mirror available at www.thebodyshop.com for $8


St. Tropez Makeup Required Brown Snake Print Compact Mirror available at www.sleepyheads.com for $14.95


Jemma Kidd Mirror Compact Duo available at www.neimanmarcus.com for $33


Paris Presents Folding Double Compact Mirror available at www.sallybeauty.com for $2.99


Sephora Black Travel Mirror available at www.sephora.com for $6


Spring Street Design Seahorse Compact available www.saks.com for $26.90


Tapestry Compact Mirror available at www.urbanoutfitters.com for $10

BGG Chats with R&B Singer Jazmine Sullivan!

Just when you were afraid that great soul singing was a thing of the past, R&B newcomer, Jazmine Sullivan, is here to put all of your fears to rest. This 21-year-old Philadelphia native is heating up the airwaves with her soulful, reggae-infused hit single, “Need U Bad,” from her forthcoming debut disc, Fearless. Signed to J Records, Jazmine’s poignant, strong and sultry voice is sure to get noticed. With production by Missy Elliott, Salaam Remi, Jack Splash, Tricky, Wyclef, Stargate and more, Fearless, will definitely be the album that everyone is talking about it.

I recently had a chance to interview the budding superstar diva.

Check out our Q&A:

BGG: When did you know that you wanted to become a professional singer? Did you sing in church while growing up?
JS: Yes, I started when I was about 5 or 6. My actual earliest memory of singing was in my mom’s plays at church. She used to throw plays at church. But I decided to sing R&B professionally at the age of 12. My parents were very supportive even though my mother was really strict; we didn’t listen to a lot of R&B.

BGG: Did you grow up in a large family?
JS: I guess it’s considered large, but it doesn’t seem that large to me. They’re not a lot of singers either. My mom sang when she was younger and her sister did a bit too, but now I’m pretty much the only one who sings. They supported me with the decision to sing so my mom got me hooked up with an organization called, The Black Lily, in Philadelphia, which was started by the Jazzy Phat Nasties. It was a place for female singers to get their chance to shine. So I sang there like every other Tuesday so I would go there, sing at night and then get up early the next morning and go to school. It was crazy! (laughing)

BGG: I’m sure it was worth it since you were doing what you loved.
JS: Yeah, it was! I got a chance to watch and learn from performers like Floetry, Kindred…I got a chance to soak up all of the things that they do that make them great. I got signed when I was 16 to Jive Records…(long pause) It didn’t work out! (laughing) I think the main reason was because I was so young and I didn’t really know who I was as an artist and the vision they had for me wasn’t what I wanted. In the end, it ended up being a blessing in itself because it gave me time to grow and I got better at my writing, which eventually led me to getting signed to J (Records)!

BGG: What do you think about the constant comparisons between your voice and Lauryn Hill’s? I know you’ve heard that so many times!
JS: Yes, I’ve heard it a million times! I never thought before this song came out that I’d be compared to Lauryn because I didn’t think that we sounded anything alike. But it’s not a bad thing, Lauryn’s a great artist, I love her, I listen to her! I listened to the Miseducation of Lauryn Hill about a million times so it’s safe to say that she’s influenced me; but I think because of the reggae vibe of the first single, it’s easy to make that comparison, but once people hear the rest of the album, they’ll be like, “She’s nothing like Lauryn Hill.” I mean it’s cool; she’s a great artist.

BGG: What inspired the hit, “Need U Bad?”
JS: It was a feeling thing. I was in the studio working with Missy (Elliott) and she presented the track and it just felt good. Lyrically the song speaks to me. The sound made me want to write something to it. The track made me want to sing “need u bad.” Once we did it and actually while we were doing it, we realized that it was special.

BGG: What was it like shooting your first music video? Was it what you expected?
JS: Yeah, it was really everything that I expected. Long hours, tiring, work, but it was fun. I had a wonderful director, Jonathan Mannion, who coached me through it realizing that it was my first video. It was not a lot of pressure on set; it was kind of like, “go ahead, do your thing.” The way he filmed it made it easier. Filming me doing things that I’m used to doing in my element like, which is either recording or performing live so it was cool.

BGG: Where did you shoot it?
JS: We shot it in Brooklyn.

Check out her debut video below:

BGG: How would you describe your forthcoming debut CD?
JS: Different. It’s different from anything else. It’s real and relatable. The subjects that I’m speaking about, people feel and I don’t think a lot of people touch on the subjects that I talk about on my album. Musically, it’s all things that I’ve been influenced by so far so there’s a bit of hip-hop, of course R&B, jazz, reggae, pop, it’s everything in there.

BGG: What are some of the subjects that you talk about?
JS: What subjects don’t I talk about! (laughing) There’s one song that seems to be getting good feedback called, “Bust Your Windows.” I’m not really promoting violence or really busting somebody’s windows out. The main message in that song is about there being consequences to infidelity on anybody’s part. You know, love can really make you do some really crazy things, but know that there are always consequences to your actions.

BGG: I know that you’ve been singing since you were 5-years-old, but do you ever get nervous while performing? If so, what do you do to get over the butterflies?
JS: No, not really. I guess it’s because I’ve been doing it for so long that it’s become second nature. I just get so much love (when I’m on stage) that it just feels good to just release.

BGG: What makes your sound unique from the other R&B female artists on the airwaves today?
JS: I think first my voice, I don’t think there are a lot of people who sound like me. Secondly, I’d say my lyrics. I personally, don’t hear many females speaking about the things I speak about sets me apart. Plus, the fact that I’m a writer too; I’ve written my whole album.

BGG: I know that you’ve penned songs for other artists in the past, such as Christina Milian, are you still writing for other artists? If so, who?
JS: No, I really focus on getting my stuff out. I’ve been on the backburner for so long so I’ve just been focused all on my album. But of course I’d like to write for other artists. I would like to submit a song to Fantasia. I’m actually supposed to.

BGG: If you could choose to do a duet with anyone who would it be? Why?
JS: Andre 3000. He’s creative and I love to be around creative people. Also, Kanye West. I love being around people who aren’t afraid to be different and try different things.

BGG: What’s in the water in Philadelphia? That city has spawned so many great musical acts. Do you think that artists from Philadelphia have a unique sound?
JS: There is a rich history there of soulful music. Gamble & Huff were pioneers of hit records. They were great writers and their songs have stood the test of time and are even relevant today. I think that people who come from Philly, we know that’s what the background is and we want to carry it on.

BGG: What’s next for you? Are you going on a promotional tour?
JS: I’m doing a lot of radio promo right now and I do have a couple of shows lined up. So we’ll be probably going on tour soon.

BGG: What do you want people to know about, Jazmine Sullivan?
JS: Jazmine Sullivan is very thankful for all of the support that she’s been getting. This is what I love to do. I’m just grateful that I have this opportunity. I’ve been waiting for this moment for so long and it’s just overwhelming that I really get to do what I love.
Just keep supporting and I’ll keep making good music.

**While in the process of recording and promoting her album, Jazmine will give fans an inside look into her life by leaving voice mail updates along her journey. Fans can call Jazmine at (215) 789-4753 to hear her updates and leave messages!

Stylish Summer Scarves

Accessories play an integral part in helping us appear polished and pulled together. That’s why this season, fashionable BGs are reaching for summery scarves to create a cool and chic look. The key to wearing scarves in the summer is to opt for silks, chiffons and other lightweight fabrics that are airy and won’t absorb heat.

They are the perfect accessories for breezy, summer evenings. Whether loosely tied around the neck or used as headbands for a retro, laid-back look, scarves can be worn in a variety of ways. Plus, they can easily be incorporated into your fall wardrobe!

Do you wear a scarves in the summer? What’s your favorite summer accessory this season?

Check out some of these:


Oversize Paisley Print Scarf available at www.bananarepublic.com for $69


Robert Cavalli Zebra Signature Doubled Chiffon Silk Scarf available www.forzieri.com for $135


Windowpane Plaid Scarf available at www.gap.com for $19.50


Basanti Scarf by Peace Treaty available at www.shopbop.com for $99


Coach Marker Stipe Oblong Scarf available at www.coach.com for $78


Floral Bouquest Chiffon Silk Scarf available at www.forzieri.com for $59


Free People Full Fringe Scarf available at www.freepeople.com for $19.95


City Style Diamond & Maze Scarf available at www.nyandcompany.com for $14.95


Diane Von Fursternberg Parang Bora Bora Scarf available at www.dvf.com for $147


Preston and York Floral Scarf available at www.dillards.com for $15


Tolanzi Zig Zag Scarf available at www.ravinstyle.com for $75


Emilio Pucci Small Cinguetto Scarf available at www.saks.com for $150

Great Summer Reads


Summer is the perfect time to catch up on the mountain of books that you’ve been meaning to read for months. There’s nothing like sitting in a park or on your porch (if you live outside of NYC, LOL!) with a good book. Whether it’s a biography (my favorite), novel, self-help book or something in between, they all allow us to escape from the stresses of the world and take time for ourselves.

Unfortunately, this year I haven’t been reading as much as I usually do, but with a few upcoming out-of-town trips planned, I know that I’ll have plenty of time to do just that at my least favorite place – the airport!

What are you reading this summer? What’s your favorite book of all time (if you can name just one)?

Here are a few books that are on my MUST READ list for the summer:


The Audacity of Hope: Thoughts on Reclaiming the American Dream by Barack Obama


Green With Envy: Why Keeping Up with the Joneses is Keeping Us in Debt by Shira Boss


Ghettonation: A Journey into the Land of Bling and the Home of Shameless. She has a follow-up coming out in September, so I want to read this one first!


Cooked: From the Streets to the Stove, from Cocaine to Foie Gras by Jeff Henderson


Lies At the Altar: The Truth About Great Marriages by Dr. Robin Smith

Going with the Motions

I’ve always heard great things about Motions’ products, but now I can finally vouch for the brand too. When I tried their new Marula Hair and Scalp Oil, I instantly became a fan. Prior to actually using it, I was a bit skeptical because I’ve had my fair share of trying products that didn’t live up to the hype. Luckily, for my locks that was not the case with this light-weight spray.

This product, which is made with 100% marula oil was just what I needed to give my oftentimes, dry and dull-looking tresses a nice sheen without leaving it lifeless or greasy. Plus, it has a delightful tropical scent that makes you want to continuously use it. I’ve applied it daily for about 2 weeks now and will definitely add it to my hair repertoire!

Have you used Motions? If so, what are your thoughts on their products?