Last Minute V-Day Ideas for Your Guy

We all know that guys don’t really care about Valentine’s Day as much as we ladies do. However, everybody enjoys feeling appreciated and treated well so why not make his Valentine’s Day special? In case you didn’t buy your beau anything yet, don’t fret — I’ve compiled a list of easy and simple things that you can do that will make him swoon!

Prepare his favorite meal. Every man loves a good meal. You don’t have to be Rachael Ray to pull off a quick and easy meal that will make his taste buds jump for joy. Of course add some champagne and candlelight to set the mood just right.

Add a playlist of love songs to his iPod that say all of the things you want to say to him. For example: Beyonce’s “Dangeroulsy In Love.”

Give him a manicure. Most men don’t get their hands manicured as much as they should, tonight will be the perfect opportunity to get cozy with his cuticles!

Write him a note saying that you’ll pre-order “The Wire” and “The Boondocks” full box sets as soon as they come out. What guy doesn’t love these two shows?

Write a heart-felt poem that expresses the passion and love you have for him. Men appreciate loving words even if they claim to be tough.

Slip on your sexiest piece of lingerie. This will get his attention immediately and you won’t have to do anything else!

BGG Speaks with eBay Style Director Constance White

Recently, I had the opportunity to interview eBay Style Director, Constance White. In that role she educates consumers about the #1 fashion site on the Internet — ebay. She also authors a blog on eBay called “Fashion is My Life,” where fashionistas can read about her take on the collections shown in NYC and L.A.

The prominent journalist’s impeccable fashion sense and style expertise has landed her various appearances on TV shows such as “The Oprah Winfrey Show,” “E! Fashion File,” “Project Runway,” “Today,” and many others.

White has held posts as a style reporter for the renowned New York Times, executive fashion editor at Elle, as well as a position at Women’s Wear Daily. Her work has also appeared in British Vogue, People, Essence, and The Chicago Tribune. She is also the author of “Stylenoir,” a groundbreaking book on black style.

Check out our Q&A:

BGG:What were some of the most surprising fashion trends that you saw during NYC Fashion Week Fall 08?
Constance: I was really surprised that belts and fur are still so strong. The fur trend is more than four years old and belts have been around now for a year but they’re both still hot.

BGG:What would you say is eBay’s greatest advantage in the fashion marketplace right now?
Constance: Ebay’s greatest advantage is the ability for buyers to find great bargains – fabulous fashion items at a great price. With people being cautious about spending and the real estate market at a low, eBay’s a great place to save money and still get what you want.


One of the vintage gowns on display at the eBay Style Suite.

BGG:What has been the most searched eBay fashion item for the upcoming spring season so far?
Constance: Out of the fall 2008 trends seen on the runways last week, Booties are one of the most searched for trends on eBay.

BGG: I know that you’ve spoken out against the scarcity of black models on the runway before, how do you as a fashion expert plan to help bring more awareness to this problem?
Constance: Continuing to speak out about it in public, talking to designers, and booking models of all races are actions I will continue to take to help alleviate the problem, hopefully.

BGG: Being a fashion mogul, I’m sure you’ve come across many fantastic and one-of-a-kind pieces, but what is your most coveted fashion piece? Why?
Constance: My most coveted item is almost anything fabulous from Commes des Garcons. Something artistic and ingenious, but wearable.

BGG: What classic piece should every woman have in her closet?
Constance: Must have wardrobe items include: a white shirt, a few layering camisoles or T-shirts, a pinstripe pants suit, a pair of jeans, a black dress that goes from day into evening, a black skirt, diamond studs, a good watch or cellphone!, and a good hairstyle.

BGG: If you could choose your favorite fashion icon past or present, who would it be? Why?
Constance: My favorite fashion icon is Diana Ross. She’s so over the top and glamorous and always cares about how she looks. She’s worked with what she has. She’s not the most beautiful woman in the world, but she has made herself into one of the most intriguing (not including her present hairstyle of course!).

BGG: What’s the most exciting new fashion-related feature available to eBay users?
Constance: I really love the countdown feature : it
counts down auctions in real time. This way you don’t have to keep refreshing your browser to see if you are winning an auction. It’s perfect for helping you win that coveted fashion item on eBay.


Vintage Halston gown on display at the eBay Style Suite.

BGG: What key piece of advice could you give a woman of color who wants to break into the world of fashion journalism/commentary?
Constance: Most of the advice is the same I’d give to anyone of any color EXCEPT to women of color I particularly say – network! Get out of your own comfortable world, if you have not already. Insert yourself into the conversation (in a respectful way), invite someone out for drinks who is not your color, ask someone for advice who is white, hang out in the Hamptons, and not just with Puffy. You need the broadest possible network of contacts, if you are going to reach your goals- and they are reachable.

Advice for everyone: Get educated (preferably get a degree). Read magazines, books, the Internet. Intern. Research the career paths of achievers in the industry want to be in. Don’t be discouraged.

For more inside fashion tips, visit Constance’s eBay blog called, “My Fashion Life” at https://blogs.ebay.com/constance.white

Miracle Mineral Makeup

Last week during Fashion Week I was invited to a blogger meet-and-greet event hosted by Glam Media at the Libary Hotel in Midtown. At the very laid-back, yet somewhat posh event, I had the opportunity to mix and mingle with fellow bloggers while sipping wine and nibbling fancy finger foods. Being that I am an incessant makeup and beauty enthusiast, I was super excited that there was a professional makeup artist on hand from Jane Iredale – The Skin Care Makeup to give us willing participants mini-makeovers.

Even though I had gone to the event with my usual makeup already applied, I was excited to get it redone by a professional. Prior to the makeover, Kevin (the makeup artist) told us all about the benefits of Jane Iredale. I listened, but didn’t really think that the products’ “mineral benefits” would be any different from all of the other cosmetic sales pitches you hear all the time.

To my pleasant surprise, all of the seemingly false beauty banter lived up to the hype. Kevin told us that the mineral foundations and concealers included acne-fighting agents while creating an anti-pancake barely-there feel and he was right.

I had a hideous pimple that appeared to have dissipated after the makeup application. Plus, it felt like I wasn’t wearing any makeup although I had on foundation, concealer, eye shadow, blush and lip gloss (I could feel the gloss of course)! I must say, after looking in the mirror all I could think was, “Why couldn’t I have known him 3 years ago so I could’ve hired him for my wedding!” I looked amazing and have never felt prettier.

If you have never used or heard of Jane Iredale’s products, definitely check them out at www.janeiredaledirect.com. Trust me, they have a wide range of products capable of complementing every BG’s skin tone!


Base loose powder


Blush (he used golden apricot on me)


Lash-lengthening mascara


Lip Gloss

BGs & Guys Take on the Grammys!

From Rihanna to Aretha Franklin, the Grammys last night brought out the best of the best in music. The wonderful world of technology made it possible for R&B heavy-hitter Alicia Keys to start the show with a sweet duet with “Old Blue Eyes” himself — the late great Frank Sinatra. The night was packed with performances by some of our favorite artists.

Although I was a bit confused by the coupling of the 80s group, The Time with R&B pop sensation, Rihanna, their performance was entertaining nonetheless.

The absolute most entertaining act for me was Kanye West, who is the most talented hip-hop artist out right now. His powerful rendition of “Stronger” was a soul-stirring glow-in-the-dark punk party while his tear-jerking tribute to his late mother, Donda West, was compelling and sincere. He also took home the Best Rap/Hip-Hop Album of the the Year award.

The much-hyped duet of Beyonce with her obvious performance inspiration — Tina Turner was quite lackluster, I don’t know what I was expecting exactly, but whatever it was I didn’t get it. The gospel set with Aretha Franklin, Bebe Winans, The Clark Sisters and Trinitee 3-5-7 brought church to the Staples Center.

Alicia Keys made another appearance to sing “No One,” which I never get tired of no matter how many times I hear it. She topped her performance off with a surprise guest guitarist — the strangely sexy John Mayer. Not only did she perform twice, she also took home the trophy for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance.

Our favorite nominee for rehab from across the pond, Amy Winehouse, brought down the house in London via satellite while sweeping the show with 5 awards.

The Grammys were good, but not great. I guess it reflects the state of music right now. Thanks to Kanye West and Alicia Keys they really made the show for me. For a complete list of winners go to www.grammys.org.


Alicia Keys


Beyonce


Jay-Z


Rihanna


Ludacris

Fashion Week Comes to a Close

Now that Fashion Week is coming to a close this evening, it’s time for me to sum it all up! Being that it was my first time being a member of the press invited to various fashion shows and parties, it was an overall good experience. However, waiting in line for 30 minutes or more for a 6-minute show wasn’t exactly my cup of tea, but hey, the things we do for the love of fashion, right?

The most popular trend that I noticed on the catwalks was: non-existent BGs. Don’t get me wrong, there were a few, but definitely not enough. Designer and fellow BG Tracy Reese definitely represented for us on the runway. From the looks of things, it seems like the fashion industry hasn’t changed their ways since the controversy surrounding the lack of color on the catwalks was brought to the forefront last year.

Aside from the model blackout, the most prominent fashion trends I noticed for the upcoming fall season were: rich greens, bold golds, punchy purples, satin, structured silhouettes and the already popular metallic fabrics and black tights.

As for the party scene, I attended a few that were cool, but none that blew me away. So for all of you who wish that you could’ve gone to some of these events, it was fun, but rest assured that it’s not as fabulous and glamorous as you may think. Hopefully, I’ll have a more exciting experience tonight or in September during the Fashion Week Spring 2009 shows. Until then, check out some of these celebrities who attended a few of the fashion festivities!


Saleisha, winner of “America’s Next Top Model” cycle 9.


Djimon Hounsou and Kimora Lee Simmons


Singer Amerie


Tyra Banks and Russell Simmons


Tyson Beckford


Joy Bryant


Christina Milian


Rihanna


Salt-n-Pepa


Star Jones and Vivica Fox


LisaRaye


Aisha Tyler

Black History Month Events

Now that we’re almost a full week into February, I thought that I would share some events that are taking place in honor of Black History Month around the country.

Even though BGG honors African-Americans on a daily basis, it’s great that the nation takes notice of our contributions to the country even if it happens to be the shortest month of the year!

Be sure to check out some of these events if you’re in the area:

The 16th Annual Pan African Film & Arts Festival: A showcase of Black creative films that reinforce positive images and help to destroy negative stereotypes.
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Date: February 7 – 18th 2008
For more information visit: www.paff.org

Black History Showcase: People and Progress: Celebrate Black History Month with a showcase of traditional dance, poetry and singing performances.
Location: Clarendon Park Community Center in Chicago, IL
Date: February 23, 2008
For more information visit: www.chicagoparkdistrict.com

Resurrection: A unique blend of music, poetry, comedy and drama, RESURRECTION follows six interconnected men, ages 10 through 60—a child scientist, a young man from the projects preparing for college, an ex-convict, an executive, and a Bishop of a mega-church—through an evening that changes their lives forever.
Location: 14th Street Playhouse in Atlanta, GA
Date: February 2-17th 2008
For more information visit: www.woodruffcentertickets.org

Underexposed: The month-long exhibition is an opportunity to experience the artistry of photographers whose work is under-represented in the field—African-American women. Eight compelling photographers, who are based in New York, but hail from as far away as California and Barbados, are represented in underEXPOSED, showing work ranging from travel and nature photography to portraiture and photojournalism.
Location: Lincoln Center in New York, NY
Date: February 1-28th 2008
For more information visit: www.lincolncenter.org

Chic Status

In New York City, most BG fashionistas carry a designer “status” handbag. Whether it’s vintage or the newest one on the market, many women feel like they have to carry designer purses from Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Fendi, Prada and Chanel to maintain their fabulous fashion style. Personally, I’ve never been a fan of buying bags based on the designer. I don’t care if the bag was made in Italy or the United States, if I like it I’ll buy it. To me the quality and structure of the bag are paramount. As long as it looks good, I’ll wear it, however, I have never worn a knock-off and never will.

Although I have heard that classic A-list handbags will last you a lifetime. Maybe one day I’ll find out, but until I bring home enough money to frivolously purchase one of these super expensive purses, I’ll continue rocking my chic affordable leather Kenneth Cole bags!

What do you guys think?

Chanel Tote Available at www.efashionhouse.com for $1888


Louis Vuitton Manhattan Available at www.eluxury.com for $1560


Fendi Turtle Spy Bag Available at www.eluxury.com for $1910


Prada Calfskin Bowler Available at www.bergdorfgoodman.com for $1595