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3 Things I’ve Learned Since Becoming a Full-Time Working Mom

April 4, 2016

Since I started blogging back in 2007, I’ve rarely missed more than a week of writing on BGG. Even after the birth of both of my children, I somehow managed to squeeze in time for my blog. However, now that I’m a mom of two small kids (ages 6 and 2) and working full-time, I’ve found keeping my blog current more challenging than ever.

After working from home for years and being thrust back into the outside professional world has been a huge adjustment. From finding a reputable nanny to scheduling extra-curricular activities, my mommy duties have shifted into high gear. Plus, the fact that I’ve only been on my new job for three months, is a challenge in of itself.

Even with the full support of my husband, being a working mother is one of the hardest, most fulfilling aspects of my life. I know my struggle with balancing it all isn’t unique, which is why I applaud all of my fellow mothers and the mothers before me, including my own.

This first quarter has definitely had its ups and downs, but I’m looking forward to what’s to come. Here’s how I plan to make the rest of the year better than ever!

Schedule some “me” time. If my batteries aren’t charged, I can’t be my best as a wife, mother or as an employee. Frankly, if I don’t allow time to relax and do things that I enjoy, I am doing everyone in my life a disservice.
Time Management. We all know that time is our most precious commodity. If we waste it on unproductive activities, we’re cheating ourselves out of time that could go towards tackling something of substance from your to-do list. I often fall victim to the swiping and scrolling rabbit hole of social media.
Accept that there’s no perfect balance. Acknowledging that there is no special formula to balancing it all is the best thing that we can do for ourselves. Sure, some things will suffer while other things flourish, but that’s just how life goes. The sooner we realize that no one has super powers—we just make the best out of our situations the better off we’ll all be!

Now that we’re a quarter of the way into the new year, what practices do you plan on implementing to ensure that the rest of 2016 is as great as possible?

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Exclusive Interview: New ‘Rush Hour’ TV Series Star Justin Hires

March 2, 2016

It’s hard to believe that the original movie, “Rush Hour,” starring Chris Tucker and Jackie Chan hit theaters nearly 20 years ago! Admittedly, I loved the first film, but skipped the sequel and following installments.

Now, the runaway franchise is revving up a fresh new twist by bringing the story of Detective Carter and Detective Lee to the small screen.

I caught up with Justin Hines (Detective Carter), the star of the action-packed CBS-produced series to get the scoop on the new show and more!

Check out the Q&A below:

BGG: Who was the first person you called when you landed the lead role as Detective Carter on “Rush Hour?” Describe that moment.

Justin Hires: I believe it was either my mom or wife. They both sent me to voicemail. It’s always good to have people in your life to keep you humble.

BGG: What was the audition process like for the role?

JH: It was a super last minute audition. Originally, I couldn’t audition because I was attached to a pilot at another network, but CBS couldn’t find a “Detective Carter” they were completely satisfied with; so they had one final audition and allowed me to come in. Fortunately, I had a great audition and two call back auditions later- I booked the role!

BGG: I’m sure you were already a huge fan of the “Rush Hour” films, which one was your favorite?

JH: Rush Hour 2 is my favorite! That’s the one when they go to Hong Kong. Their characters were even more developed in that one, they were best friends by then, the comedy and action was in top form. I genuinely love all 3 of those films.

BGG: How will the TV series differ from the feature films? What can viewers expect?

JH: I think the TV series is a little younger and hipper than the movies. Chris Tucker was always hip, but you get a slightly younger vibe from us. Also, we try to make sure we’re bringing our own personalities to the characters- so we’re definitely not doing Chris Tucker and Jackie Chan impressions on the show.

Photo courtesy of CBS

BGG: Past or present, who gives you the greatest comedic inspiration?

JH: Eddie Murphy, Martin Lawrence, and Chris Rock would have to be my top 3. After that, Chris Tucker, Dave Chappelle, Marlon Wayans, and Bernie Mac. Can you tell I’m a comedy nerd?

BGG: I know that being a young black male in Hollywood can be tough, what keeps you motivated?

JH: I’m a strong believer in “nothing is impossible.” So, I keep going until I accomplish the things many thought couldn’t be done. Every little bit of success I achieve, motivates me to accomplish something more. Also, my rent and car payment motivates me everyday.

BGG: Once the series premieres, are you prepared for the catapulting fame that’s sure to come?

JH: I believe I am. I’ve been acting professionally for 10 years. This will not be an overnight success story, even if people think it is. I’ve been through a lot in Hollywood and fortunately those things will help keep me not only grounded, but prepared for this potentially great next faze of my career.

BGG: Are you a social media fan? If so, who are some of your favorite people to follow? Why?

JH: I’m kind of a social media fan. I started out doing YouTube videos when I first moved to LA, then stopped periodically to focus on my stand-up and acting. However, some of my close friends are big on social media- King Bach, Alphonso McAuely, and Page Kennedy (also one of my cast members on “Rush Hour”) all have really funny content online.

BGG: Where would you like to see yourself in 5 years?

JH: Having a fledging movie career. Also, producing other television shows. My goal is to create an urban “Judd Apatow” type camp for film and TV. I know several funny and talented actor/comedians who are stars and just need the right TV and film roles to showcase their talent. I would love to be the person to help initiate that. I’m a huge believer in reaching back to help others.

BGG: When you’re not filming, what do you like to do for fun?

JH: Do stand-up comedy, watch movies, and just spend time with my family. I’m a simple man.

Watch a sneak peek of the series below:

Be sure to tune in to “Rush Hour” when it premieres on CBS Thursday, March 31st at 10pm EST. Were you a fan of the “Rush Hour” franchise? Will you be watching the new TV series?

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Review: ‘Race’ Chronicles Jesse Owens’ Rise to Olympic Champion

February 19, 2016

Oftentimes I feel like the word “legend” is tossed around carelessly. Sure, there are some pretty awesome people who’ve impacted the world, however; not all are worthy of being called a “legend.” But when it comes to describing Olympic champion Jesse Owens, l can’t think of a more fitting title.

After viewing a screening of the new biopic, “Race,” based on Owens’ life, I learned just how much he earned that lauded recognition. Through his sacrifices, he helped pave the way for generations of African-American athletes. As the first black person to win four Olympic gold medals, his accomplishments were outstanding and established an amazing precedent, which the movie skillfully shows.

Focus Features’ Jesse Owens’ biopic, “Race,” starring Stephan James hit theaters nationwide Friday, February 19th.

Set in the 1930s, the film follows Owens’ rise to track-and-field star during very tumultuous times for race relations domestically and abroad (the Holocaust). Thankfully, the movie didn’t waste time showing viewers his childhood. It focused solely on the portion of his life that was relevant to the story, which was a four-year span—from his college training days straight to the 1936 Olympics.

Stephan James who stars as Owens does a phenomenal job portraying the Alabama native. I thought it was smart to cast a relatively unknown actor to play Owens for the sake of having a blank slate to build Owens’ character free from familiarity. His performance is also praise-worthy because he embodied the nature and competitive edge of a true athlete.

Jason Sudeikis, who played Larry Snyder, Owens’ hard-nosed, yet devoted coach/mentor/friend, also does a superb job. Despite them coming from two very different backgrounds, the film cleverly reveals their similarities—purposefully exposing our similarities as human beings. The two have great onscreen chemistry, which makes watching their scenes together (the majority of the movie!) enjoyable.

The fact that Owens participated in the Olympics, which was held in Berlin amid Adolf Hitler’s vision of Ayran supremacy is mind-blowing. It shows his bravery, tenacity and ultimate love of racing.

In addition to the entertaining plot that was Owens’ sports career, I found the costumes used throughout the film to be complete standouts. I honestly wanted to run out and purchase each of the chic and polished outfits worn by his wife, Ruth, played by Canadian actress Shanice Banton. From prim blouses to handsome, yet feminine hats, the costume director captured the era beautifully—making the period piece feel authentic.

Overall, the film is good. However, I wished that it delved a bit deeper into Owens as a person. While it did include insight into his love life, it didn’t fully reveal his true personality. I do appreciate the fact his adult children and estate played an integral role in the making of the film, providing credibility to the project. Again, it’s a good film and aptly released during Black History Month. If you’re interested in seeing an inspiring, triumphant film about one of the most fantastic athletes that ever lived, run to a theater near you!

Check out the trailer below:

Do you plan on seeing ‘Race’ this weekend?

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Must-See: ‘The Very Hungry Caterpillar’ Live On Stage

February 17, 2016

If you’re a fan of the hugely popular children’s book, “The Very Hungry Caterpillar,” you’re in for a treat!

Now, you can watch the classic picture book come to life in a colorful live action theater production right here in New York City. Even if the book that introduced the joy of reading to a generation isn’t a fond childhood memory, it will be a cherished experience for the little one in your life.

Designed, illustrated and written by Eric Carle, the show is comprised of four exciting stories including, “The Artist Who Painted a Blue Horse,” “Mister Seahorse,” “The Very Lonely Firefly” and of course, “The Very Hungry Caterpillar.” Each of the puppet-centric acts was breathtakingly beautiful. Of course the grand finale of watching the cute caterpillar turn into a brilliant butterfly was a glorious sight. But for Ava, and me, the most gorgeous and imaginative story of them all was “The Very Lonely Firefly.” The flickers of the light emitting from the whimsical insects lit up the stage was our favorite by far.

“The Very Hungry Caterpillar” is showing at the 47th Street Theatre, click here for ticket information.

The show is simply magical and perfect for children of all ages. It’s currently at the 47th Street Theatre and running through March 27th.

What was your favorite childhood book?

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Event Recap: Texture Media Presents Texture On the Runway 2016

February 15, 2016

New York Fashion Week is in full swing and this past weekend I attended a show, but the focus wasn’t on fashion—it was all about the HAIR! Yep, Texture Media’s 4th Annual Texture On The Runway Show sponsored by Target was a showcase of curls, coils, kinks and waves.

Held at City Winery in Soho and hosted by Michelle Breyer of Naturally Curly and Patrice Yursik of Afrobella, the evening was a celebration of textured hair. Not only did the runway feature ravishing crowns, but also the entire room was jam-packed with women of color rocking beautiful natural styles.

The 45-minute long show was broken down into five parts featuring styles from popular hair care brands such as Dark & Lovely, Cantu, Crème of Nature, Design Essentials and Garnier. Dark & Lovely got the party started with their energetic presentation set to the upbeat Beyoncé track, “Grown Woman.” Big, bushy Afros moved to and fro as the dancers grooved to every beat. It was an incredible way to start the show and set the tone for the rest of the night.

Next up was Cantu with cute short curly styles and bold, eye-catching updos. They were followed by a red-hot set from Crème of Nature. Their lineup included Diana Ross-esque blowouts, big bouncy curls and a stunning, precision cut Afro. Then, Design Essential models donning unique styles such as a lop-sided faux bob, textured topknot and a lavender cascade of waves strutted down the catwalk. The show’s finale included a lovely wash-n-go, a center-parted teased bun and a flirty, curly ponytail.

Plus, all of the show’s vendors were on hand to give attendees information about the products used in the presentation and how to recreate some of the looks at home.

The diversity of textured hair is remarkable and this showcase is just a wonderful way to put our manes on a celebratory platform.

The night of the show I was suffering from a bad hair day, but managed to salvage my curls by tying a colorful, wiry headband scarf around them.

Whether you wear your hair straight, curly, in braids, in an Afro or somewhere in between, what do you love the most about your hair?

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New Victory Theater’s “Handa’s Surprise” is a Hit for Kids!

February 15, 2016

We all know that holding the attention of little ones is no easy feat. But for the actresses in The New Victory Theater’s newest presentation, “Handa’s Surprise,” at The New 42nd Street Studios, that wasn’t a challenge!

Set in Kenya, the 30-minute interactive show tells the story of Handa (Krystle Hylton), who’s on a journey to deliver her best friend, Akeyo (Michal Keyamo), a basket filled with delicious fruits. But, before she’s able to bestow her tasty gifts, she encounters several animals (giraffe, zebra, monkey, parrot, etc.) along the way—each snatching her luscious fruits one-by-one.

“Handa’s Suprise” is showing at The New 42nd Street Studios, located 229 W. 42nd Street in New York City and runs through February 21st. Click here for ticket information. Photo Courtesy of The New Victory Theater.

Adapted from a book by Eileen Browne, some of the creatures throughout the performance are puppets, some are made of wood and a few are made from fabric—all are creatively and beautifully designed. Plus, all of the animals are funny and friendly so you don’t have to worry about your child becoming frightened.

The African sounds and rhythms, cheerful storytelling brilliant puppetry and stellar art direction make this show a must-see for children ages 6 months to 4 years. I took my 2-year-old son and he was in awe the entire time. It’s a great way to introduce theater to small children. If you’re looking for a fun way to celebrate Black History Month, definitely check out this performance!

What’s your earliest memory of a theatrical performance? Mine was seeing “The Wiz” at the Chicago Theater when I was 5 years old!

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Touchdown: Beyoncé Wins Super Bowl Weekend!

February 8, 2016

Forget Super Bowl Sunday, this past weekend was all about Beyoncé!

From the surprise politically charged “Formation” video drop to the top-notch halftime performance to the announcement of a world tour (can’t link to the tour dates because her site crashed due to the influx of visits!) – Beyoncé pulled out all the stops to the shock and delight of diehard fans. After showing the world that she can use her music and platform to address social issues that affect BGs and guys in America, the multi-Grammy award-winning singer solidified her reign as Queen Bee.

Beyoncé outfitted in Black Panther-inspired garb, is standing at attention before taking the centerstage at Super Bowl 50 in Santa Clara, CA on February 7, 2016. Photo via Beyoncé’s Instagram

As a result, there’s no doubt that her already overcrowded Beyhive fan club is swarming with new applicants. Heck, I’m even considering signing up. But, to be honest I don’t have the time or true desire to become a devoted member, but like many – I do enjoy her music and respect her relentless work ethic. That’s why I’m hoping to snag a pair of tickets to one of her upcoming shows this spring. Considering I haven’t seen her perform since 2003, I’ll need to dust off my stinger and hope that the Beyhive welcomes me back with open wings!

In celebration of Beyoncé and all of her #BlackGirlMagic, take a scroll down memory lane and check out my top five Queen Bee videos of all time.

“Me, Myself and I” (2003) – This song reminds me of when I first moved to New York City and felt completely independent! It was just me, myself and I before my soon-to-be hubby joined me!

“Love On Top” (2011) – I used to sing this song to my daughter Ava when she was 2 and 3 years old. She loved this song and would ask me to play it over and over. At the time, it was the only popular song she knew (I don’t play mainstream music at home – my kids think Michael Jackson is the only artist that exists – LOL). She thought Beyoncé’s name was “Honey, Honey,” and probably still does!

“Best Thing I Never Had” (2011) – This song holds no sentimental value for me, but it’s just a great song that I enjoy singing along to!

“Heaven” (2013) – I’ve never lost a close friend, but we’ve all experienced the death of a loved one. This passionate tear-jerker is just so pure and relatable.

“Crazy In Love” (2003) – The song that started it all. Like “Me, Myself & I,” this upbeat tune also reminds me of my early days of being a magazine intern in Manhattan. Fond memories that I’ll cherish forever.

*Bonus*

“Formation” (2016) – Of course I couldn’t compile a list without including Beyoncé’s most socially-conscious video to date! Since I too “love my baby hair with baby hair and Afros,” this song had to make the cut!